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PleasureBonBon Forum -> PleasureBonBon.com Personal Stuff ~ A bit of...good news? Regarding Mayfield |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:10 pm
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Claire (as many of you know her as Mayfield) is currently stabilized and being kept in an intensive care unit. The doctors were able to obtain the blood needed to replenish her system and are watching over her to see how her body reacts. At the point I visited her, she was still under sedation, however, she should be awake within the next few hours and possibly released. I believe that she will be attending some rehabilitation as well as having several psychological testing done to see if she is no longer a danger to herself. I thank everyone for their concern, especially those who were able to unknowingly support her spiritually here on the forums.
As far as Bio goes, he is torn up over all of this. I hope everyone will support him, along with Mayfield's family during these rough times.
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:17 pm
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She's dead buddy
Like they pulled the plug on her. You know...... you don't come back after that. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:20 pm
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Actually Dorian i talked to bio he hallucinated the pulling the plug thing because a boyfriend doesn't have that kind of authority only her blood family could make those kinds of decisions...maymay is alive but we wont be talking to her for a long time
um crow may i inquire as to your relationship with maymay (claire)? |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:21 pm
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Right...So the fact I was sitting at the hospital about 2 hours ago, doesn't mean anything? Bio pretty much freaked. I've been trying to get him to calm down. But *shrug* You'll see within the next few weeks. I'm just here to try and cheer up her friends. Hence the reason why my account was made a month ago, but never used because I rarely have time to get online..anyway I called Bio a bit ago and woke him up, so..I'm guessing he'll be on here soon. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:22 pm
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:22 pm
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?????????????????
She's.... she's.... she's alive.......
*jumps around in happyness*
I CAN'T BELIEVE IT... SHE'S ALIVE..... SHE'S ALIVE YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES
YES YES..... *does cartwheels* SHE'S ALIVE
Oh I am so happy...... she's alive.... |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:23 pm
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He's a close friend of her family. They just woke me up and I got the news from him. The heart monitors still going beep beep beep. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:24 pm
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Hoshiginiro wrote: |
um crow may i inquire as to your relationship with maymay (claire)?
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Yes you may Hoshiginiro. In fact I welcome most questions. I am a close family friend of Claires. I've known her for about 7 years, give or take a few months.
EDIT: I apologize for my slow responses, multitasking aswell. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:25 pm
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Crow wrote: |
Hoshiginiro wrote: |
um crow may i inquire as to your relationship with maymay (claire)?
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Yes you may Hoshiginiro. In fact I welcome most questions. I am a close family friend of Claires. I've known her for about 7 years, give or take a few months.
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I thought she was brain dead.... like how? |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:26 pm
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:27 pm
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Yeah, all of that was my bad. I appaerently broke down as she was brought into the ICU. Then the hallucinations started. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:27 pm
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Dorian Longstreet wrote: |
I thought she was brain dead.... like how?
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Brain damage is assumed 95% of the time when Oxygen is cut off from the brain for an amount of time, usually prolonged. Whether you call it luck, a scientific miracle, or someone bigger putting a hand in, from what they can tell, she'll be physically fine after the rehab and drugs have worn out of her system. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:28 pm
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Crow wrote: |
Dorian Longstreet wrote: |
I thought she was brain dead.... like how?
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Brain damage is assumed 95% of the time when Oxygen is cut off from the brain for an amount of time, usually prolonged. Whether you call it luck, a scientific miracle, or someone bigger putting a hand in, from what they can tell, she'll be physically fine after the rehab and drugs have worn out of her system.
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Physically...
Mentally is another thing. No celebrations just yet, people. Not just yet. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:30 pm
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Crow wrote: |
Dorian Longstreet wrote: |
I thought she was brain dead.... like how?
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Brain damage is assumed 95% of the time when Oxygen is cut off from the brain for an amount of time, usually prolonged. Whether you call it luck, a scientific miracle, or someone bigger putting a hand in, from what they can tell, she'll be physically fine after the rehab and drugs have worn out of her system.
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*puts hand on head... smiles*
That's wonderful..... dear God...... Man..... this is great. SHE'S ALIVE.... SHE'S ALIVE....
she's alive....... man God listened to my prayers.
Bio no worries dude, I understand. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:31 pm
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:32 pm
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Hoshiginiro wrote: |
If shes alive then im gonna celebrate even if shes not mentally recovered
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Mentally, she's alive and not braindead...... that's enough for me.
I am so happy. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:34 pm
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:35 pm
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Silvador wrote: |
Physically...
Mentally is another thing. No celebrations just yet, people. Not just yet.
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I personally don't know you, nor had experience with you in any forums I've ever been in, However, you seem like a very pessimistic and depressing person, even if the point you made is valid.
No, I do not know how she will be acting in a few days, nor do I know to what extent any mental or spiritual damage has been done to her.
I do know however that her family and friends, Bio and myself included, are joyed at the fact that she hasn't passed. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:37 pm
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Crow wrote: |
Silvador wrote: |
Physically...
Mentally is another thing. No celebrations just yet, people. Not just yet.
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I personally don't know you, nor had experience with you in any forums I've ever been in, However, you seem like a very pessimistic and depressing person, even if the point you made is valid.
No, I do not know how she will be acting in a few days, nor do I know to what extent any mental or spiritual damage has been done to her.
I do know however that her family and friends, Bio and myself included, are joyed at the fact that she hasn't passed.
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I THINK WE ALL ARE THERE MATE OR ALEAST ME AND MY ROOMMATE ARE THANK YA SO MUCH FOR TELLING US |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:37 pm
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Crow wrote: |
Silvador wrote: |
Physically...
Mentally is another thing. No celebrations just yet, people. Not just yet.
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I personally don't know you, nor had experience with you in any forums I've ever been in, However, you seem like a very pessimistic and depressing person, even if the point you made is valid.
No, I do not know how she will be acting in a few days, nor do I know to what extent any mental or spiritual damage has been done to her.
I do know however that her family and friends, Bio and myself included, are joyed at the fact that she hasn't passed.
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No please this is just Silv's way of saying he's happy.
I... I..... I just........ Excuse me I am Dorian Longstreet. I was the one who talked to her before she tried to kill herself. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:38 pm
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:40 pm
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Hoshiginiro wrote: |
IM ecstatic that shes still alive i thought it was weird that i couldn't find a death announcement on the Maryland news paper website
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Weirdly enough, they don't announce suicides anymore...*shrugs* not surprising with the suicide/homicide rate here. I can understand hospitals not wanting to let all the information out. Political bullshit, we all understand that.
Anyway, to officially introduce myself, I am Crow. Musician and Professional Troll. Nice to meet you all. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:41 pm
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Crow wrote: |
Hoshiginiro wrote: |
IM ecstatic that shes still alive i thought it was weird that i couldn't find a death announcement on the Maryland news paper website
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Weirdly enough, they don't announce suicides anymore...*shrugs* not surprising with the suicide/homicide rate here. I can understand hospitals not wanting to let all the information out. Political bullshit, we all understand that.
Anyway, to officially introduce myself, I am Crow. Musician and Professional Troll. Nice to meet you all.
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Thank you so much, I can't really express how amazingly wonderful this is. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:41 pm
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Crow wrote: |
Silvador wrote: |
Physically...
Mentally is another thing. No celebrations just yet, people. Not just yet.
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I personally don't know you, nor had experience with you in any forums I've ever been in, However, you seem like a very pessimistic and depressing person, even if the point you made is valid.
No, I do not know how she will be acting in a few days, nor do I know to what extent any mental or spiritual damage has been done to her.
I do know however that her family and friends, Bio and myself included, are joyed at the fact that she hasn't passed.
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Yeah, I haven't exactly been in a very cheerful mood these past couple of days. I also tend to be a bit more practical when it comes to details. I'm sorry, I don't mean to drag everyone down. I'm not saying this isn't great news, it's fantastic news... you really have no idea how happy I am to hear that she is alive. But, I just don't want to see everyone get existed just to get shot down again. I'm sure everything will be fine. I'm sure that in time she will return to us her old, happy, play self.
Please, Mayfield/Claire..... Forgive me for all I have said to you. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:42 pm
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they should still put a death announcement in the newspaper that so and so has died maybe not of what but death records are a matter of public information i should have been able to find it some where if it was true |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:43 pm
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Silvador wrote: |
Yeah, I haven't exactly been in a very cheerful mood these past couple of days. I also tend to be a bit more practical when it comes to details. I'm sorry, I don't mean to drag everyone down. I'm not saying this isn't great news, it's fantastic news... you really have no idea how happy I am to hear that she is alive. But, I just don't want to see everyone get existed just to get shot down again. I'm sure everything will be fine. I'm sure that in time she will return to us her old, happy, play self.
Please, Mayfield/Claire..... Forgive me for all I have said to you.
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Pray for the best, expect the worst. Completely understandable. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:44 pm
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Hoshiginiro wrote: |
they should still put a death announcement in the newspaper that so and so has died maybe not of what but death records are a matter of public information i should have been able to find it some where if it was true
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True, but as she isn't dead *knock on wood* it could explain your troubles in finding the records. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:45 pm
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So how long is the mental treatment expected to take. |
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:46 pm
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Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:46 pm
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Dorian Longstreet wrote: |
So how long is the mental treatment expected to take.
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From what I understand, she won't be committed...it'll be sessions with a shrink until they feel that she doesn't need to be going there anymore, or until she is deemed capable of deciding herself not to go anymore. Since I'm back in town though, I'm assuming most likey 2-3 times a week for one hour sessions for a month or two.
EDIT: Whether she wants to go or not :p Better to get help for her now before..well..yea I won't be a downer, but you all understand. |
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