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Xebulon
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:00 am  Reply with quote
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I guess the title says it all, really. Much to my chagrin, I have to leave the forum for the forseeable future. I don't know when, or even if, I'll be back. I felt I owed it to everybody to at least let you all know in person, as it were, rather than simply disappear. So... yeah. It's been a good run. Sorry I haven't been around the past few weeks and I hope everybody is doing well. Welcome to the newcomers and happy birthday to anybody who's birthday I missed. Vanessa, Ronald, Martin, I'll keep my subscription going as long as I can but right now I don't know how long I can continue to afford it. If anybody has a burning desire to contact me, for some unknown and/or suspiciously wacky reason, I can be reached on Xbox Live (at shafmaster) or on Yahoo (at skylore22124).

Well... I guess that's it, really. So long, and thanks for all the fun.




















Ok, I know some of you are chomping at the bit for the details. Well... alright. Here's a summary.

On Friday, January 22, I got laid off. Essentially, because the franchise company was having financial trouble and I was making too much money. Unfortunately, since I don't have a computer of my own, I used the one at work or on occassion I get access to a friend's. So since I no longer have regular access anymore I won't be able to get to the forum regularly enough to keep up. That might change if I can get another job, if I'm lucky.

On Thursday, January 28, my father passed away. His health had been gradually failing for a few years now and to be honest it wasn't really much of a shock at this point. I don't want to go into the details. No, I'm not "fine" but yes, I'll be "ok". Mostly, I just want to get everything about it over with so I can move on. Again, details.

I've got too much I have to focus on to be able to set aside the mental capacity to function here as well. And that's pretty much it.

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Miss Scorpia
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:08 am  Reply with quote
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I'm so sad to hear this. Crying or Very sad
I wish you the best of luck and I hope you will return one day.

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dragonfly
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:19 am  Reply with quote
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man another bad year i hope you get some good news my friend and look after youself.

i do hope you are able to comeback one day.

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Hoshiginiro
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:29 am  Reply with quote
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i dont know you but my condolences i know what its like to lose family and jobs i hope you make it out of that rut and come back and all that

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Chaosengine
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 5:13 am  Reply with quote
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Now Xebulon!! Goodbye, buddy, take care of yourself...

Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad

I hope things work out you.

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Vanja
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 5:46 am  Reply with quote
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My condolences, Xebulon. I wish you the best of luck with everything, take care, I hope you will return one day.

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Caroline
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 6:38 am  Reply with quote
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Sad

Here's to things calming down a bit for you, giving you time to recover.
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kommy
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 7:33 am  Reply with quote
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I can sympathize, Xebulon. My condolences. I wish you the best of luck and hope fortune brings you back here sooner rather than later.

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Ashton Gray
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:26 am  Reply with quote
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You have my deepest sympathies as well, Xebulon, for your troubles. I know what it's like to watch a family member, especially a parent, fade away like that.

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Corran
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:22 pm  Reply with quote
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I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a tough time. I hope you are able to return someday. Good luck.

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Tursi
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Sorry to hear that, too, Xebulon... hope that things will settle for you. I'll see if I can't track you down on XBLA.

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Lidia_Apricot
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:51 pm  Reply with quote
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*gives Xebulon a hug.*

Kinda sad to say goodbye to you, Oh, welp. You have to do what it is best for you and the people you care.

Take a breather and relax for a while.

When you're ready, do your best and when you decide to come back, as always, we will welcome with you with open arms. ((aaaaaaand maybe a pie in the face. Razz))

See you in the future. :3
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Aaron_Thom
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We're going to miss you. I hope everything will work out in the end.

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Rune174
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:57 pm  Reply with quote
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Dude, I hope you return, it was so much fun talking here on the forums and playing on the game online.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 3:38 pm  Reply with quote
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Wish ya the best xebulon.

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AlainDaishar
PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 4:05 pm  Reply with quote
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My condolences Xeb. Thats absolutely terrible to hear. I wish you the best, and hopefully you'll be able to return as your presence will be severely missed.

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Foxonian
PostPosted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 5:24 pm  Reply with quote
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After losing my own father some years ago in a simmilar way,I can relate.I hope you manage to find a new job soon.Untill your return,I'll miss you Xeb.
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Good luck Xeb. See ya when you get back.

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MrWolf12
PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 12:13 pm  Reply with quote
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~pat on his shoulder~

You take it easy, my friend. You know how to contact me if ya need anything.
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The Adept
PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 9:14 pm  Reply with quote
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it sucks that your leaving the forums xeb but il talk to ya on XBL

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 8:38 am  Reply with quote
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good luck in the future and i hope that you will join soon.

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Shadow_Twisted
PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 11:00 am  Reply with quote
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Shall I keep a tally of bear hugs you will owe us, should you return?
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Symphony
PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 3:10 pm  Reply with quote
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It's so sad to see people leave, and you've been around and active all the time I've been here.

I hope we'll see you again, Xebulon.

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