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    | PleasureBonBon Forum -> PleasureBonBon.com Personal Stuff  ~  Farewell, hopefully not forever | 
  
  
  
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:00 am 
            
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I guess the title says it all, really.  Much to my chagrin, I have to leave the forum for the forseeable future.  I don't know when, or even if, I'll be back.  I felt I owed it to everybody to at least let you all know in person, as it were, rather than simply disappear.  So... yeah.  It's been a good run.  Sorry I haven't been around the past few weeks and I hope everybody is doing well.  Welcome to the newcomers and happy birthday to anybody who's birthday I missed.  Vanessa, Ronald, Martin, I'll keep my subscription going as long as I can but right now I don't know how long I can continue to afford it.  If anybody has a burning desire to contact me, for some unknown and/or suspiciously wacky reason, I can be reached on Xbox Live (at shafmaster) or on Yahoo (at skylore22124).
 
 
Well... I guess that's it, really.  So long, and thanks for all the fun.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Ok, I know some of you are chomping at the bit for the details.  Well... alright.  Here's a summary.
 
 
On Friday, January 22, I got laid off.  Essentially, because the franchise company was having financial trouble and I was making too much money.  Unfortunately, since I don't have a computer of my own, I used the one at work or on occassion I get access to a friend's.  So since I no longer have regular access anymore I won't be able to get to the forum regularly enough to keep up.  That might change if I can get another job, if I'm lucky.
 
 
On Thursday, January 28, my father passed away.  His health had been gradually failing for a few years now and to be honest it wasn't really much of a shock at this point.  I don't want to go into the details.  No, I'm not "fine" but yes, I'll be "ok".  Mostly, I just want to get everything about it over with so I can move on.  Again, details.
 
 
I've got too much I have to focus on to be able to set aside the mental capacity to function here as well.  And that's pretty much it. |  
 _________________ I like old jokes.  With them I know when to laugh. |  
 
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:08 am 
            
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:19 am 
            
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:29 am 
            
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 5:13 am 
            
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Now Xebulon!! Goodbye, buddy, take care of yourself...
 
 
      
 
 
I hope things work out you. |  
 _________________ "One night in Bangkok and the world's your oyster.
 
The bars are temples, but the pearls ain't free...
 
You'll find a god in every golden cloister,
 
And if you're lucky then the god's a she..." |  
 
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 5:46 am 
            
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| My condolences, Xebulon. I wish you the best of luck with everything, take care, I hope you will return one day. |  
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 6:38 am 
            
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Here's to things calming down a bit for you, giving you time to recover. |  
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 7:33 am 
            
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| I can sympathize, Xebulon.  My condolences.  I wish you the best of luck and hope fortune brings you back here sooner rather than later. |  
 _________________ "Doktor!  Are you sure this will work?!"  "HAHA!  I HAVE NO IDEA!" |  
 
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:26 am 
            
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| You have my deepest sympathies as well, Xebulon, for your troubles. I know what it's like to watch a family member, especially a parent, fade away like that. |  
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:22 pm 
            
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| I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a tough time. I hope you are able to return someday. Good luck. |  
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:42 pm 
            
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| Sorry to hear that, too, Xebulon... hope that things will settle for you. I'll see if I can't track you down on XBLA. |  
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:51 pm 
            
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*gives Xebulon a hug.*
 
 
Kinda sad to say goodbye to you, Oh, welp. You have to do what it is best for you and the people you care.
 
 
Take a breather and relax for a while.
 
 
When you're ready, do your best and when  you decide to come back, as always, we will welcome with you with open arms. ((aaaaaaand maybe a pie in the face.  ))
 
 
See you in the future. :3 |  
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:41 pm 
            
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:57 pm 
            
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| Dude, I hope you return, it was so much fun talking here on the forums and playing on the game online. |  
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 3:38 pm 
            
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| Wish ya the best xebulon. |  
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I am the ghost of games... What i am, all i will be
 
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            Sun Feb 07, 2010 4:05 pm 
            
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            Mon Feb 08, 2010 5:24 pm 
            
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| After losing my own father some years ago in a simmilar way,I can relate.I hope you manage to find a new job soon.Untill your return,I'll miss you Xeb. |  
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            Mon Feb 08, 2010 5:33 pm 
            
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| Good luck Xeb. See ya when you get back. |  
 _________________ yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery,  but today is a gift. that's why it is called the present.
 
quoted by master Oogway off kong fu panda
 
Some weep, some cry, some make couches fly. - Katmir
 
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            Fri Feb 12, 2010 12:13 pm 
            
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~pat on his shoulder~
 
 
You take it easy, my friend. You know how to contact me if ya need anything. |  
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            Fri Feb 12, 2010 9:14 pm 
            
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            Sat Feb 13, 2010 8:38 am 
            
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            Sat Feb 13, 2010 11:00 am 
            
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| Shall I keep a tally of bear hugs you will owe us, should you return? |  
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            Sat Feb 13, 2010 3:10 pm 
            
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