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PleasureBonBon Forum -> PleasureBonBon.com Personal Stuff ~ Farewell, hopefully not forever |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:00 am
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Royal Member of BonBon
Joined: 28 Mar 2007
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I guess the title says it all, really. Much to my chagrin, I have to leave the forum for the forseeable future. I don't know when, or even if, I'll be back. I felt I owed it to everybody to at least let you all know in person, as it were, rather than simply disappear. So... yeah. It's been a good run. Sorry I haven't been around the past few weeks and I hope everybody is doing well. Welcome to the newcomers and happy birthday to anybody who's birthday I missed. Vanessa, Ronald, Martin, I'll keep my subscription going as long as I can but right now I don't know how long I can continue to afford it. If anybody has a burning desire to contact me, for some unknown and/or suspiciously wacky reason, I can be reached on Xbox Live (at shafmaster) or on Yahoo (at skylore22124).
Well... I guess that's it, really. So long, and thanks for all the fun.
Ok, I know some of you are chomping at the bit for the details. Well... alright. Here's a summary.
On Friday, January 22, I got laid off. Essentially, because the franchise company was having financial trouble and I was making too much money. Unfortunately, since I don't have a computer of my own, I used the one at work or on occassion I get access to a friend's. So since I no longer have regular access anymore I won't be able to get to the forum regularly enough to keep up. That might change if I can get another job, if I'm lucky.
On Thursday, January 28, my father passed away. His health had been gradually failing for a few years now and to be honest it wasn't really much of a shock at this point. I don't want to go into the details. No, I'm not "fine" but yes, I'll be "ok". Mostly, I just want to get everything about it over with so I can move on. Again, details.
I've got too much I have to focus on to be able to set aside the mental capacity to function here as well. And that's pretty much it. |
_________________ I like old jokes. With them I know when to laugh. |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:08 am
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:19 am
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Rank: Super Veteran
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:29 am
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 5:13 am
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Rank: Super Veteran
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Now Xebulon!! Goodbye, buddy, take care of yourself...
I hope things work out you. |
_________________ "One night in Bangkok and the world's your oyster.
The bars are temples, but the pearls ain't free...
You'll find a god in every golden cloister,
And if you're lucky then the god's a she..." |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 5:46 am
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My condolences, Xebulon. I wish you the best of luck with everything, take care, I hope you will return one day. |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 6:38 am
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Royal Member of BonBon
Joined: 22 Dec 2008
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Here's to things calming down a bit for you, giving you time to recover. |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 7:33 am
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I can sympathize, Xebulon. My condolences. I wish you the best of luck and hope fortune brings you back here sooner rather than later. |
_________________ "Doktor! Are you sure this will work?!" "HAHA! I HAVE NO IDEA!" |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:26 am
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You have my deepest sympathies as well, Xebulon, for your troubles. I know what it's like to watch a family member, especially a parent, fade away like that. |
_________________ Silentium est aurum |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:22 pm
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I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a tough time. I hope you are able to return someday. Good luck. |
_________________ Go on. Tell me how you really feel. |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:42 pm
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Royal Member of BonBon
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Sorry to hear that, too, Xebulon... hope that things will settle for you. I'll see if I can't track you down on XBLA. |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:51 pm
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Royal Member of BonBon
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*gives Xebulon a hug.*
Kinda sad to say goodbye to you, Oh, welp. You have to do what it is best for you and the people you care.
Take a breather and relax for a while.
When you're ready, do your best and when you decide to come back, as always, we will welcome with you with open arms. ((aaaaaaand maybe a pie in the face. ))
See you in the future. :3 |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:41 pm
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:57 pm
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Dude, I hope you return, it was so much fun talking here on the forums and playing on the game online. |
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 3:38 pm
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Wish ya the best xebulon. |
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I am the ghost of games... What i am, all i will be
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Sun Feb 07, 2010 4:05 pm
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Rank: Senior Member
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Mon Feb 08, 2010 5:24 pm
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Royal Member of BonBon
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After losing my own father some years ago in a simmilar way,I can relate.I hope you manage to find a new job soon.Untill your return,I'll miss you Xeb. |
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Mon Feb 08, 2010 5:33 pm
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Good luck Xeb. See ya when you get back. |
_________________ yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. that's why it is called the present.
quoted by master Oogway off kong fu panda
Some weep, some cry, some make couches fly. - Katmir
Let me stand behind you in times of peace, let me stand infront of you in times of war, let me stand beside you as a equall, as a friend. |
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Fri Feb 12, 2010 12:13 pm
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~pat on his shoulder~
You take it easy, my friend. You know how to contact me if ya need anything. |
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Fri Feb 12, 2010 9:14 pm
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Sat Feb 13, 2010 8:38 am
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Sat Feb 13, 2010 11:00 am
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Shall I keep a tally of bear hugs you will owe us, should you return? |
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Sat Feb 13, 2010 3:10 pm
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